Great Relationships Aren’t Rocket Science.
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Create the relationship of your dreams in 9-short weeks.
We’ll show you how.
Relationship Skills Boot Camp
with Famously Single’s Dr. Darcy Sterling
and her wife,
Stephanie Sterling, LCSW
Whether you need tools to break the vicious cycle of fighting
or you’re just looking to relight the spark that you had in the beginning…
Relationship Skills Boot Camp is your path to happiness.
WHAT’S THE SINGLE MOST IMPORTANT KEY TO A HAPPY LIFE?
It’s not money.
And it’s not becoming famous (though many people think it is).
It’s the quality of your relationships.
So What Exactly is Relationship Skills Boot Camp?
Relationship Skills Boot Camp (RSBC) is a 9-week online training program designed to take you through a step-by-step system to transform your relationship into the relationship of your dreams.
We know it works because we’ve been where you’re at. It worked for us. It’s worked for our clients. It’s worked for the celebs on Famously Single. And it will work on you.
You’ll learn and practice researched-based tools so you can:
Bypass Fighting
Trust Your Partner and Yourself
Deepen Your Connection
Create Long-Term Passion - Forever
How?
Your relationship is nothing more than a result of your habits. If those habits are amazing, you have an amazing love life. If those habits suck, your love life sucks.
By the time you finish RSBC, you’ll have learned and practiced research-based relationship habits so frequently – they’ll just be part of your daily life. Forever.
Even if your partner is at fault (which of course they are…) the new skills you bring to your relationship will transform it – regardless.
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What makes RSBC Different?
RSBC teaches you tools and skills that have been tested and re-tested by researchers in the field of relationship studies. We don’t promise you miracles - we promise to teach you methods that stand the test of time.
Steph and Darcy are licensed therapists with a private practice that’s been in existence since 1998. A combined 30 years of clinical experience (we're talking licensed therapists - not coaches), 2 seasons of working with celebrity clients on E! Network's Famously Single, and countless clients, we've got this down to a science: The Science of Relationships.
Take the entire course. Yup. Every lesson. Attend our live office hours every single week. Submit all your homework assignments when they're due. If, by the end, you don’t find value, we’ll refund your money.
“While Dr. Darcy taught me a lot about relationships, I think the most important thing I learned from her is that it all starts within myself. She made me realize my own personal anxieties and has given me countless ways to relieve the stresses in my life that I still use today.”
“Dr. Darcy’s advice helped me learn to trust again, to listen more and that its ok to be vulnerable. I’m now in a successful & healthy relationship that I must say is all because I have applied the relationship skills I learned with Dr. Darcy.”
“Working with Dr. Darcy has been a complete game changer for me. She helped me sharpen all of my rusty relationship blades by trusting myself to grow. Now, I am no longer a “One Trick Pony” who leads with sensuality and sex. After receiving her guidance, I now know that I am worthy and capable of finding my one and only soul mate. And that’s all I ever wanted.”
You Don’t Have To Figure This Out Alone. We’ll Hold Your Hand The Entire Way.
RELATIONSHIP SKILLS BOOT CAMP is your solution.
How It Works
Each week, you’ll receive a one-of-a-kind video lesson delivered right to your inbox. It will look just like our free training videos with downloadable worksheet(s) – except now you’ll have to hand it in to us because it will be your homework!
Later in the week, you’ll submit your homework to us along with any questions you have about that week’s materials.
Finally, you’ll join us for our LIVE Office Hours on video chat where we’ll answer your questions, we’ll make sure you’re understanding the material and that you’re properly practicing it in your everyday life.
WE GOT YOU
We said you’re not alone in RSBC and we mean it. We’re here every step of the way to answer your questions during weekly office hours. Need more support? You’re free to request additional time (billed at our hourly rate) on an as-needed basis and as our schedule permits.
WE GOT THIS
We teach every day of our lives. That’s what we do with our clients. We’ve learned the most creative ways of helping people absorb new information.
RSBC provides you with an enriched learning experience that is unparalleled. You’ll be exposed to unique experiences all designed to help you absorb the new information we throw at you. It’s hands-on, entertaining, and you’ll have fun with it. We teach clients these skills every day. We know what will stick.
MASTERY
RSBC is jam-packed with everything you need to become a relationship master. Not only will you learn tons of information, you’ll get tools to apply immediately to your relationship. You’re not going to just talk about your relationship. You’re going to re-design your relationship.
WEEKLY LESSONS
Each week you’ll receive a link to a new lesson delivered right to your inbox with that week’s lesson. The link will bring you to our private, member’s-only site. 9 Weeks + 9 Lessons = Cloud 9.
Have A Look At our Syllabus Below.
Lesson 1:
THE 3 STAGES OF RELATIONSHIPS
In this lesson, you’ll get the foundation for your long term success. You’ll discover:
The three stages of relationships, why stage 2 is the reason why most relationships fail, and how to avoid it.
Lesson 2:
CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES AND YOUR RELATIONSHIP PATTERNS
You’re recreating your childhood experiences in your relationship. In this lesson, you’ll learn:
The core reason why we’re all attracted to people who trigger our deepest childhood wounds and the opportunity for healing that it provides us with.
What your parents have in common with your partner - and why you were attracted you to your partner in the first place.
Lesson 3:
HOW PRIORITIZING THE RELATIONSHIP CHANGES EVERYTHING
When you learn the importance of prioritizing the relationship over your individual needs, you dramatically increase the chances of your relationship lasting. In this lesson, you’ll discover:
The most effective way to put an end to drama.
The counter-intuitive choice you can make every single day to reset old, toxic patterns and create more happiness today.
The single most important question you need to ask yourself to help you prioritize your relationship.
Lesson 4:
COMMUNICATION 101
Good communication is the single most important relationship skill. Want to stop fighting? This tool’s for you. You’ll learn:
The 6 do's and the 16 don'ts of effective, healthy communication (notice all the don'ts? Yes, you're doing something - or several somethings - wrong! Find out why they're in this lesson.).
The 3-Part Dialogue: a step-by-step structure for having sensitive conversations. When you know how to use this tool, you can control 98% of your interactions AND your partner will feel heard and understood on an entirely new level (Happy wife, happy life. Just saying).
The #1 rookie mistakes we see people make when implementing these skills, and how you can avoid them.
Lesson 5:
VULNERABILITY
The only way we bond or feel true connection is through vulnerability.
It is to relationships what flour is to bread-the stuff that holds it together. In this lesson you’ll learn:
The #1 essential tool you need to get out of a relationship power struggle. It's hard. It's scary. You have to do it anyway.
The quality in a partner that you need to watch out for. We don't say this lightly, but if you see this, you have the wrong partner.
Specific, daily opportunities for you to practice vulnerability.
Lesson 6:
EMOTIONAL MANAGEMENT
Hands down – the most important relationship skill you need is the ability to control yourself when you’re triggered (aka, pissed off). In this lesson, you get an entire toolbox of emotional management skills. You’ll discover:
The science behind survival mode, so you can understand it, move past it, and finally thrive in your relationship.
The 3 Survival Response Styles, how to tell which is YOUR default response, and how to respond when you're negatively triggered. With our Pattern Interrupt Formula, you'll be able to cool yourself down at heated moments and come back to fight with a cool head.
How to take your emotional temperature. People make their biggest relationship mistakes by getting this wrong. But if you do this right, destructive meltdowns and relationship-destroying fights will become a thing of the past.
Lesson 7:
THE RELATIONSHIP BANK ACCOUNT
Every day, you’re either making your partner happy through deposits or you’re making your partner unhappy through withdrawals from your relationship bank account. Create outstanding daily habits that result in a positive balance – which means you’ve got a very happy partner. In the lesson, well teach you:
The ratio of withdrawals to deposits you need for a healthy relationship (no, it's not 1:1).
Specific actions you can start taking immediately to create a positive balance in your account, plus the specific withdrawals you want to avoid. We'll teach you how to maintain a positive balance, so your relationship is filled with trust and integrity.
How to avoid making a mistake at a critical time in your relationship. Get this wrong, and you'll make your partner bitter and disappointed, instead of hopeful and open.
Lesson 8:
YOUR RELATIONSHIP VALUES
When you’re in agreement about what’s most important in your life, it doesn’t take as much effort to please your partner – and it means you share relationship values. You don’t have to be as disciplined in your words or behaviors, because you share deeper reasons for meeting each other’s needs. Stop white-knuckling good behavior and start living in flow.
In this lesson, we’ll show you:
The 3 Relationship Values Questions that will help you define your Relationship Values. These Values will act as your North Star as you continue to build a healthy, fulfilling relationship through the years.
How to write your Relationship Mission Statement. This was one of the toughest things we ever did in our relationship, but once we hammered it out, it became the 'why' behind our actions and decisions, making it much easier to act in the best interest of our relationship. You'll also learn the 2 most common rookie mistakes that prevent you from defining relationship values, and how to avoid them.
Lesson 9:
THE ETERNAL COURTSHIP
Bring everything you love from the beginning of your relationship back into the current stage of your relationship with these no-fail tools. You’ll discover:
How to return to the state of mind you had when you first met your partner. Answer these questions thoroughly, and you'll be halfway toward reigniting the honeymoon sparks.
The 4 things you did when you first started dating that you'll want to bring back to make your partner (and you) feel like the most important person in the world.
The 10 characteristics of the honeymoon stage. Once you're clear about what you've been missing, your next steps to bring that early romance back will be easy breezy.
Create the Relationship
of Your Dreams In 9 Short Weeks.
We’ll Show You How.
BONUSES
Bonus # 1
Money & Relationships Master Class with Mara Meinhofer
Disagreements over money can stop even the best relationship dead in its tracks. But we’ve got you covered. In this master class, you’ll learn:
- How to have the money talk to get on the same financial page.
- The psychological reasons why money is such a sensitive subject.
- The financial red flags to look out for (and what to do about them) in your partner.
Bonus # 2
Sex & Relationships Master Class with Dr. Megan Fleming
- Sex is the ONE thing which (presuming you’re monogamous) distinguishes your intimate relationship from all the others – making it one of the most important parts of your relationship.
- In this interview, Dr. Darcy asks sexpert Megan Fleming questions from, “How often should I be having sex?” to “How long should it take a woman to come?”
Bonus # 3
How Your Perception Shapes Your Relationships Master Class with Saved By The Bell star and NY Times Best-Selling Author, Isaac Lidsky. No one understands perception better than someone who had sight and then lost it – and that’s exactly what happened to Isaac Lidsky. His story, and how it shaped the way he ‘sees’ his world, is why his Ted Talk went viral. In this interview, you’ll learn:
- How your fears alter your reality.
- The importance of speaking your mind – through your words.
- When to trust yourself and when your assumptions should be questioned.
Our Bonuses alone are a value of $1,200.00
MEET DARCY
Dr. Darcy Sterling is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in New York City. She received her Master's Degree in Social Work from Columbia University in 1996, and her Ph.D. from New York University's School of Social Work in 2006.
Dr. Darcy is the host of E! Network's new series, Famously Single, where she teaches 8 celebrities dating and relationship skills.
Her group practice, Alternatives Counseling, began in 1998 and continues today specializing in high-achieving individuals who want more out of their relationships.
MEET STEPH
Stephanie is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Co-owner of Alternatives Counseling in New York City where she specializes in couples counseling. She received her Master's Degree in Clinical Social Work from New York University's School of Social Work in 2006, and became a Certified Imago Relationship Therapist in 2013.
THE STERLINGS
Steph and Darcy are licensed therapists in New York City. Their practice, Alternatives Counseling, was formed in 1998 and has ridden the peaks and valleys of economics and politics during arguably the most tumultuous years in American history.
They stand today stronger, better trained, and more committed than ever to providing clients with services unparalleled in the field of mental health, personal growth and development. They question when others accept. Research when others acquiesce. And most importantly, they love what they do. Counseling is not their work. It is their life's mission.
RSBC Will Transform Your Relationship
How? Your love life is nothing more than a result of your habits. RSBC teaches you how to create new daily relationship habits that will result in less fighting, deeper connection, and lasting passion in your relationship. By the time you finish RSBC, those habits will be as routine as brushing your teeth.
We Got You
We said you’re not alone in RSBC and we mean it. We’re here every step of the way to answer your questions during weekly office hours. Need more support? You’re free to request additional time (billed at our hourly rate) on an as-needed basis and as our schedule permits.
We Got This
We teach every day of our lives. That’s what we do with our clients. We’ve learned the most creative ways of helping people absorb new information. RSBC provides you with an enriched learning experience that is unparalleled. You'll be exposed to creative experiences all designed to help you absorb the new information we throw at you. It's hands-on, entertaining and you'll have fun with it. We teach clients these skills every day. We know what will stick.
Your Choices For Finding And Building Your Ideal Relationship.
We know you have other options. We know because we've tried them. All of them.
You name it, we've done it.
Couple's counseling, self-help books, other online courses, silently glaring at each other across the living room...
Our step-by-step program is the result of years of education, postgraduate training, couples therapy, researching, self-experimentation, and working with clients.
We created RSBC because there's nothing else like it.
When you register for RSBC you get:
2 licensed therapists
A 19-year track record
Relationship Skills Boot Camp. The First Program of its Kind.
Total Mastery
This isn't just reading a self-help book. This is complete immersion-the kind that will transform EVERY relationship in your life.
Follow-through
This isn't another thing you'll blow off. We build in accountability so you can count on yourself to get results.
Relationship Skills Boot Camp. The First of Its Kind.
We've taken all the guesswork out. No pesky therapy.
No vague suggestions. Just Tools & Rules.
HERE'S WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING
"I almost cried at today's [RSBC] video. I really saw how the give and take has affected my relationship. I can't wait for the next part you have planned! You and your wife are an amazing team. Seriously, where have you been in my dating life? You kick ass! Ready to learn more."
"Steph listens more intently than the best of friends, and remembers every detail... She is so completely non-judgmental in her work that here office always feels like the safest of spaces, and my time there hugely comfortable."
"Before RSBC I made every relationship mistake imaginable (usually more than once!) I picked the wrong guys and I stayed in relationships even when I knew it wasn't working. By learning how to identify my needs, communicate my needs, and fight fairly, I now have the tools to create my best relationship yet. Best of all, I no longer see a successful relationship as "making it work" or simply staying together. Darcy and Steph showed me that a relationship can be so much more!"
"Steph has the ability to connect and create safety, allowing everyone around her to feel comfortable sharing how they feel. Steph's ability to do this made the process of becoming an Imago Relationship Therapist easier. Steph's skills, professionalism, and warmth make her a relationship therapist I would refer to over and over again."
"You are no celebrity therapist[s]. You are the bomb! On point. Engaged. Emphatic. Beautiful. The reason I'm glued!"
"The relationship bank account video is a metaphor that I will be using here on out... RSBC is the way. Yeah you can quote me on the last one! Thanks again,"
"I was very reluctant to speak with a therapist after some bad experiences and horror stories from friends, but Steph's openness won me over. The positive impact working with her has had on my life is immeasureable."
"My biggest takeaway from RSBC was the importance of effective communication. It gave me the skills necessary to develop and improve ALL my relationships. If you're on the fence about taking RSBC, I'd say it's the best investment you'll ever make!"
Risk Free Guarantee
COMPLETE THE ENTIRE PROGRAM
That's Right - All 9 Lessons
Complete Homework Assignments
Work With Us During LIVE Video Chat Office Hours
If at the end, you don't feel you received value from Relationship Skills Boot Camp,
Simply submit all your homework assignments within 7 days of Lesson 9, and we'll refund your money.
The Risk Is On Us.
We're willing to give you everything.
We require you to submit all of your homework assignments, weekly, and expect that you'll attend office hours consistently, in order to qualify for a refund. We do this because we know that if you follow RSBC, you'll transform your relationship and you'll get even more than what we're promising.
Want RSBC For Free?
Your Company Might Pay For It!
During RSBC 2016, 20% of participants received tuition funding from their employers.
Know why? Because Steph & Darcy are legit.
They are Licensed to teach these skills!
"I work for a Chevrolet dealer and I'm very fortunate that... my company values continuous improvement and personal growth and professional growth and... they believe that in order to be the best employee, you have to be the best person."
FAQ SECTION
Q. When does it start?
Q. How Much Time Will This Take Up?
Q. I hate school. Will I be bored?
Q. Do I get access to the entire course all at once?
Q. Can I work with Darcy & Steph individually?
Q. Do I get access to Darcy & Steph every week?
Q. What if I feel overwhelmed?
Q. I don’t have the money right now.
A. If you don't have the money to pay in one lump sum, you always have the option of a payment plan. And while we know that RSBC is a serious investment, look at what your other options will cost:
Couple's Therapy (on average via Forbes.com): $2,400.00 for 12 weeks.
Contested Divorce (on average via Forbes.com): $15,000-30,000 + 17.6 months.
Bottom line: These are skills and tools you'll have for a lifetime. Not to be glib, but that's sort of priceless.
Q. What are my payment options?
Q. Do I get a discount if I take RSBC with a friend?
Q. I have a good relationship. Do I need RSBC?
Q. When does registration close?
Q. I don't really have problems in my relationship. But we don't have much / any sex.
Q. Talking about my feelings makes my skin crawl. How's that going to work in RSBC?
Q. What if things get worse with my partner?
Q. Can RSBC help my relationship with my kids/friends/colleagues?
Q. Is this therapy? Or coaching?
Q. I've never done any personal development work. Will I be lost?
Q. Will I be given tools to stop fighting?
Q. I'm in the LGBT community. Will RSBC work for me?
Q. I don't believe in monogamy. Can I still do RSBC?
Q. Can I just buy parts of RSBC?
Q. What if I don't have the time?
Q. Can I take it with my partner?
Q. Do I have to do homework every day?
Q. Is RSBC just a class or will it help me in my life?
Q. What if I want a refund?
Q. What if I change my mind after RSBC has already started and I want to quit halfway through?
Q. How do I know if RSBC is NOT for me?
A. RSBC is a very challenging program. It is designed for motivated individuals. Below is a list of signs that RSBC is not for you:
- You want your partner to change without having to change yourself.
- You're looking for a quick and easy way to improve your relationship.
- You don't think you need to change, learn, or grow.
- You don't really have the time to invest an hour or more a day for 9 weeks.
- Click here to see if RSBC is clinically inappropriate for you (this goes to the last category on the page)
Q. How can I get members of my tribe (family members/ friends/partner) to support me registering for RSBC?
Getting Your Tribe On Board with RSBC
"That’s a lot of money."
Response:
"I know. RSBC is an investment. But the potential costs of not getting these skills makes me about as likely to stay married as everyone else - and that's a 50/50 shot. I don't like those odds."
"I want a better relationship with [insert name here]. I've tried doing this on my own and it hasn't worked. I think of it as an investment in that relationship, and I think it's worth it."
"I could always go to couple's counseling, which, on the average takes 12 sessions at an average of $200.00 per session. That comes out to $2400.00 and this is less than that. Plus, I don't want to just complain to someone about my problems. I want tools and solutions, and that's what RSBC promises."
"I don't want our family to be like everyone else's. I believe in us and I want our relationship to be a happy one - not just for us, but for the entire family."
"I understand that you think it's unnecessary. I'm not asking you to agree with me. I'm asking you to support me in doing this."
"Programs like this always want you to spend more and more. You'll start the course and there will be a ton of additional things that you're encouraged or required to buy."
Response:
"They've promised that there's nothing additional to buy."
"If I want to buy anything beyond registering for the course, I promise to discuss it first with you. How's that?"
"They're not like that. This course is taught by licensed therapists - not by para-professionals who are grasping at random subjects to sell programs on. This is all they do - and this is their only product / course."
"RSBC is going to take up so much of your time and energy. I'm worried you won't have anything left over for me/the kids/the family/our friends/our life."
Response:
"Yes, RSBC is going to take up a significant amount of time and it's going to pull my attention for 9-weeks. But it's a course on relationships. It's going to teach me how to connect to you/the kids/the family/our friends/our life more deeply. It's a short-term sacrifice for a lifetime of benefit. I want quality time with you. I want to learn how to better meet your needs, how to be a better partner / family member / friend. I want us to thrive. It would mean the world to me if you would support me through this."
"I think I'll be able to show up more fully when we do spend time together because the course is going to make me feel like I'm doing something to better my life and to better our relationship. Don't you think we're worth the sacrifice?"
"How do you know that this course is going to help?"
Response:
"The entire course syllabus is available to view online. The material looks like it will really hit on all the main difficulties I/we have."
"They don't appear to be over promising. I like that they didn't sugar coat how challenging it's going to be. They're not promising it's going to be easy - they're saying it's a huge time investment, it's not for everyone, there's homework every day for 9 weeks, and the course is all about changing myself. I get the impression that they're legit. Have a look for yourself."
"I feel like I've done my homework, I've vetted them, they're legitimately credentialed therapists who've been around forever. They didn't just pop up out of nowhere. They went to two of the best schools in the country, and they've been helping people with relationship issues for decades. At the end of the day, any time we buy a product or choose to work with a service provider, we take a risk. In this case, it's risk-free because they offer a 100% money back guarantee if the course fails to deliver. It feels like a no-brainer to me. If you're still unsure, I'm fine with you looking them up. I really want you to be comfortable with this decision."
"Their testimonials confirm what they say they're able to deliver. And many of those testimonials come from leaders in the mental health community. They train other therapists. And they're the therapists who the therapists send their friends and family to. If it's good enough for them, I think it will be good enough for me."
"You've bought so many other courses that you've never even finished. Some of them you never even touched. It's money down the drain."
Response:
"I know. I won't deny it. To be honest, they weren't very engaging programs. Most of them covered very superficial information that failed to deliver what was promised. And because they weren't very expensive, I never bothered to follow up on getting a refund. I know this is going to sound weird, but the fact that this course is almost 2K means there's no way I'm blowing it off. You have my word."
"Steph and Darcy have promised that the course modules are exactly like the videos in the free training series, and those were very engaging. I appreciated that they were willing to share personal stories of how they've struggled in their own relationship. Their openness really resonated with me. I hate being lectured to by people who have no idea what I'm going through. If the modules are like this, I'll be looking forward to getting the new one each week. I really think this is going to be a different experience. And if it's not, at this price, you have my word I'll request a refund. No more money down the drain. I promise."
"I've never even heard of Darcy and Steph Sterling. Why would you buy from people who aren't famous?"
Response:
"I'm willing to buy from them precisely for that reason. I feel like famous people are always selling things that disappoint. They rely on being a household name to sell things that don't deliver. Think of how much value I had to receive from those training videos to be willing to buy from two relatively unknown therapists?"
"In the field of personal growth and development, they're well known and I've known about them for years. AskDrDarcy.com has been around since 2010. Darcy's been a contributor for The Huffington Post, Psychology Today, and Mind Body Green for years. And now she's teaching celebrities (who have the money and ability to hire the best of the best) relationship skills on Famously Single. It feels really legit to me."
"Steph and Darcy co-own Alternatives Counseling which has been around for 20 years. The both went to top-tier schools. Darcy got her Master's Degree from Columbia University and her PhD from NYU. Steph got her Master's Degree from NYU and went on to train to become a Certified Imago Relationship Therapist. Those credentials are more important to me than whether or not they have 10 million Instagram followers."
"OK, Dr. Darcy seems legit. But who's Steph and where's she been?"
Response:
"Steph is very open about being a more private person than Darcy is. Darcy may be the one who's done a lot of media work, but that's only because she's comfortable being in the spotlight. Steph's been approached for years to appear on TV, podcasts, and to write for the same publications that Darcy writes for. Steph has chosen not to because A) She likes her privacy, and B) Nothing's ever felt like the exact the right fit for her. I actually admire her integrity to have held out, particularly in today's world where it seems everyone's dying to become a celebrity. Who turns down fame? Apparently Steph does."
You've Got Questions? We'll Get You Answers!
We want to make sure we cover every possible question you have as well as any concerns that members of your tribe might raise. If we've missed anything, please email us directly, indicating in the subject line "Please add to RSBC Common Questions"
Do You...?
Avoid expressing yourself because you fear starting a fight?
Wonder where the spark seems to have gone?
Feel like the resentment just keeps building?
Have You...?
Been cheated on or heartbroken, and want to learn how to trust again?
Noticed that your issues with your partner look a lot like your issues from other relationships, and you want to break the cycle?
Been shut down by your partner when you suggested couples counseling ?
You Want That Beginning Feeling Again.
What if you could recreate it and keep it - FOREVER?
This May Sound Impossible.
Especially if Interactions With Your Partner Make You Feel:
Misunderstood, unheard, emotionally exhausted and like there’s no winning.
Like your partner's not on your side.
Like any conversation can turn into World War 3.
Like you're walking on eggshells.
But even if you aren't at each other's throats, the routine and predictability that comes with a long-term, committed relationship can leave you feeling bored and wishing for more.
Not being miserable doesn't mean you're happy.
Relationships don't have to be this way.
You Just Need Relationship Skills.
A combined 30 years of clinical experience (we're talking licensed therapists - not coaches),
2 seasons of working with celebrity clients on E! Network's Famously Single, and countless clients,
we've got this down to a science: The Science of Relationships.
Shouldn't Your Partner be:
Your biggest cheerleader?
Your rock?
The person you can turn to for support and have to celebrate with?
If you're here, you're looking to:
Improve your relationship.
Break your old patterns.
Learn new skills.
Feel understood, heard, and truly loved for who you are.
What if 9 short weeks from now You could be SET FOR LIFE in the Love Department?
Bring the Passion, Peace, and Presence Back to Your Relationship.
NO Couples Counseling
No Judgemental Outsiders
Just YOU, your computer, and us. Your new tribe.
"Working with Dr. Darcy was unlike any relationship therapy I've had before. She made me feel safe to share my inner most insecurities about dating and relationships."
A combined 30 years of clinical experience (we're talking licensed therapists - not coaches),
2 seasons of working with celebrity clients on E! Network's Famously Single, and countless clients,
we've got this down to a science: The Science of Relationships.
"Dr. Darcy Sterling [is] upstanding because her whole approach, the tenets that underpin her thinking, and the personal, progressive paradigm that underscores her work, place [her] head and shoulders above the rest... not just in the USA, but internationally."
"With Dr. Darcy you get a phenomenal therapist, coach, teacher, and champion-in-your-corner... As a colleague, we have consulted with her regarding numerous clients and have found her advice to be both illuminating and on-point. She is an empowered person who has done the work for herself and so her counseling comes from a very real place. She doesn't just talk the talk - she walks the walk. We would recommend Dr. Darcy without hesitation to anyone who wants to turn their life around."
If you're tired of fumbling your way through relationships...
RSBC IS NOT FOR YOU IF:
As you know, RSBC is not therapy, counseling or couples counseling. It is psycho-education, and while psycho-education can be a deeply enriching experience, it isn't appropriate for everyone. Some people should begin their journey of personal development by engaging in therapy, either individually, or as part of a couple in couples counseling. We want to ensure that RSBC is a good fit for you. To that end, we provide for your review a list of scenarios under which you should not register for this course. If you're wondering whether or not RSBC is for you, scroll down to see if you fall within one of the categories below:
Individuals with a current diagnosis and/or history of untreated:
- PTSD
- Borderline Personality Disorder
- Narcissistic Personality Disorder
- istrionic Personality Disorder
- Major Depressive Disorder
- Any serious mental health diagnosis which is untreated.
- Individuals who have been prescribed psychotropic medications and refuse to comply with that medication recommendation.
- Individuals who have a current, untreated issue with substance abuse, alcohol abuse or addiction of any kind (including eating disorders of any kind).
- Individuals whose parents were domestically violent and who have not received therapy for that specific issue.
- Individuals who have a history of untreated sexual assault or abuse.
- Individuals who have a history of untreated child abuse.
- Individuals who have a history of domestic violence or who have been accused of being in a domestically violent relationship.
- Individuals who have a history of putting their hands on their partners during times of anger.
- Individuals who have a history of their partners having put their hands on them in times of anger.
Individuals who have a history of "acting out" under duress. - If you fall within one of the above-referenced categories, it means that at this time, RSBC is not
- appropriate for you, however, we would still love to work with you. Please contact us to schedule individual or couples therapy.
Fix Your Relationship
Do you want to be able to disagree without fighting?
Are you tired of fighting over nothing?
Is your partner resistant to therapy because you should be able to ‘fix your own problems’?
Has your sex life diminished or gone down to almost nothing?
Do you fight over how much sex you are having (or not having)?
Have you tried counseling and walked away without any useful tools?
Has couples counseling made things worse by sparking bigger arguments and / or more conflict?
Do you miss the excitement you had in the first few months of your relationship?
Do you crave the excitement you felt in the first few months of your relationship?
"Talking With Dr. Darcy was a lot like going to the gym, only instead of working my muscles she worked my relationship skills!"
If you decide to transform your relationship... you have 3 options:
DO IT YOURSELF
- Research relationship tools.
- Remain unfulfilled indefinitely.
- Invest in that vacation, which is $5576 on average for 2 people.
- Continue unintentionally hurting each other.
- Resentment continues to build.
- Grow a little more apart every day.
- Buy ineffective self-help books ($75 for 3 books).
- Attend Marriage Seminars ($1,100 for 2 people) and
Weekend Relationship Workshops ($1,600 for 2 people). - End game is indefinite.
- Guarantees = 0
Couples Counseling
- Research to find a Couples Counselor.
- Hope they’re actually trained as a couples counselor – any therapist can call herself a couples counselor. All you need a license – but lacking qualifications can lead to disaster.
- Tolerate discomfort while she gets to know your story/problems (3-6 months).
- Risk that couples counseling causes problems to escalate.
- Risk that nothing gets better.
- Risk not getting real tools.
- Hope the first therapist works (bad couples therapy is worse than no couples therapy).
- Risk that it will take more than one therapist to find the right one – at which point, you’re back to square 1.
- 3-6 months.
- Guarantees = 0
Relationship Skills Boot Camp
- We hold your hand through our step-by-step intensive system to master your relationship.
- Receive 9 Video Lessons in the comfort of your own home without the awkward feeling of sitting in therapy feeling like you’re being judged.
- Weekly LIVE office hours – for 9 straight weeks.
- Get and apply tools to STOP fighting, arguing, bickering and picking.
- Pull yourself and your partner out of pain.
- Get that spark back!
- Bonus #1 – Finances and Relationships Master Class with Mara Meinhofer
- Bonus #2 – Sex and Relationships Master Class with Dr. Megan Fleming
- Bonus #3 – How Your Perception Shapes Your Relationships Master class with Saved By the Bell Star, Isaac Lidsky.
- Guarantees = 100%
And….for 48-hours only
(or while supplies last)
We’ve got bonus swag for first 30 people who register for RSBC 2017!
Introducing: DATE NIGHT ESSENTIALS!
The first 30 people who register for RSBC get
Darcy’s 5 favorite products from her favorite makeup line, IT™ COSMETICS!
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- Superhero™ Mascara
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- Heavenly Luxe™ Wand Ball Powder Brush
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- Heavenly Luxe™ French Boutique Blush Brush
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Plus…
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But you need to jump on that registration page because we’ve only got 30 sets of
Date Night Essentials
If you're here, you're:
Ready to learn the tools you need to reconnect to your partner.
Done watching the same issues pop up again and again.
Interested in transforming your relationship, even if your partner won't register.
Over feeling jealous every time you see your friends' happy vacation pics on Facebook.
Missing the passion you had in the beginning of your relationship...
Relationship Skills Boot Camp is so effective,
We've actually under promised - So that we can over deliver.
We are looking for people who are willing to hit it hard - people who are willing to roll up their sleeves, take a hard look in the mirror, commit to setting their egos aside so that they make quantum leaps personally, which will vastly improve their relationships. This is not a course for people who just want information, for people who want change but who aren't willing to change to get it, for people who are just going through the motions, or for people who are already checked out. It's a course for people willing to take action.
If this sounds like you, welcome to welcome you to Relationship Skills Boot Camp Class of 2017.
"I came to Famously Single to work with Dr. Darcy. I'm grateful I can walk away from the experience with an open mind and heart. She shared the tools to help get me past where I came from and gave me knowledge on how to safely move forward."
Relationship Skills Boot Camp
The best investment you'll ever make.
YES! COUNT ME IN!
